tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63823976880019145552024-03-18T21:48:31.790-07:00Right As Rain CreationsA blog about the creative life I live balancing family and my own business.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger142125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-44509627070559842212013-01-27T22:22:00.000-08:002013-01-28T00:17:52.460-08:00A Moment in Parenting A Child with Severe Social Anxiety & Behavioral Issues <!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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Today ended well. We went to a potluck with our fellow Bible
Study families and for the most part, it went well and our children behaved.
For most parents, this would be a no-brainer. For me, I am almost crying, I am
so relieved and the emotional fall-out after the event is over is almost like
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Why? Because I have a nine year old with
extreme social anxiety and behavioral issues. <o:p></o:p></div>
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What does that mean? It means my oldest son is very
unpredictable in social settings (well, he is almost predictably badly behaved,
but it is unpredictable how badly he is going to behave.) In social settings,
he gets very anxious. He worries about what people are going to think about
him. Then he gets himself worked up and any perceived slight or insult will
trigger his anger. He calls names, he swears, he hits, he throws a major fit.
At best, he is just sullen and rude and leaves everyone alone to sulk in a
corner, muttering to himself and we just hope no one gets close enough to hear
the awful things he is saying.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This has been my life with him for about three or four
years. Sometimes it has been better than this. Sometimes it has been much, much
worse. School has been a nightmare. We have him in therapy with a psychiatrist
and he’s on his 2<sup>nd</sup> counselor. He sees a counselor and a
psychiatrist at school on a weekly basis as well. His school has created an
action plan of rules just for him, because he doesn’t fit into any of their
existing protocol for dealing with troubled children.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I hardly leave the house during the day, because I don’t
want to get a phone call from the school telling me I need to pick him up when
I’m somewhere that I can’t just drop everything and go get him. I spend every
school day cringing with dread any time the phone rings, because so many times
it IS the school calling to tell me something I don’t want to hear.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Social occasions are nightmares. I can sense the thoughts of
the other parents as my child acts out. He’s behaving like a spoiled
uncontrolled brat and I’m helpless. I feel their judgment on my shoulders. “Why
does she allow that?” “Why doesn’t she punish him?” “That mother needs to have
a firmer hand.” “She needs to grow up and control that kid.” <o:p></o:p></div>
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I just want to cry. So many of my fellow parents do want to
offer support and understanding. But as much as I appreciate their support (and I do, it does help!), very
few of them can really understand. It is one of those annoying circumstances where
you can’t ever fully understand unless you are living it yourself (and I used
to hate it when people would tell me that, but I’ve come to know that sometimes
it is true). Only other parents of special needs children can understand. Leaving a party, restaurant, or other place
due to a tantrum is something most parents experience. But for most parents, it
is a limited-time phase a child goes through or a once-in-a-rare-occasion
occurrence. For a parent of a special needs child, that phase can last years
(or a lifetime). The frequency of occurrence is more like 95% rather than
5%. If your child acted out to the point
you had to leave during a social function 19 out of 20 times, instead of once
out of 20 times, would you be tempted to cut back your social calendar? I think
so! The intensity of what we “special needs” parents are dealing with is so
hard to explain so that a parent of “normal” children can understand. It is a
bit like a person with a sprained ankle trying to understand what it is like
for a double leg amputee to live in a world full of stairs.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Maybe none of the other parents are thinking judge-y
thoughts about me, but I feel like they are, because half the time I’m thinking
that about myself. I feel like a failure
as a parent ALL THE TIME. But being firm with my son doesn’t work. Disciplines
that are standard fare for most children (time-outs, grounding, taking a
favorite toy away) don’t work. He’s not a spoiled brat – he has anxiety. His
brain does not function the way a normal nine-year-old brain functions. His
thought patterns are different. He gets locked into a cycle where he feels
attacked and his only recourse is to attack back. His brain perceives little
problems as huge life-or-death problems and then he’s at a point where reason
just doesn’t work. He’s out of control and there is nothing he can do about it.
There is little that I can do about it either, except to remove him from the
situation. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Once he calms down and his brain unlocks and he can think
and reason again, he’s almost always remorseful. The worst part is that he
hates himself. He hates that he can’t control his brain. He hates that he
embarrasses himself and us as his parents. That embarrassment just makes his
anxiety that much worse the next time we have a social function to endure.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So really, it is no shock that we tend to avoid social
situations. So much easier to just not go in the first place, than to go and
have to leave partway through, humiliated and defeated, frustrated and angry,
sad and despairing that nothing will ever improve – my heart exhausted for
myself and broken for my son.<o:p></o:p></div>
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However, that won’t really help him in the long run, will
it? He’s on two different medications, he’s been in counseling for almost two
years, we’ve learned a lot as his parents. So we have been trying to increase
our social life. Tonight’s venture to the potluck was a step in that direction. </div>
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We talked to him before-hand, explaining the timing of the event, who would be
there, what his options for activities were, what we expected of him, what the
consequence would be if he made bad behavior decisions, etc. We braced
ourselves and prepared for the worst – we had a game plan in place in case he
behaved his worst. Then the evening passed with only a few minor incidents. One
of which got him a time-out on the couch, where he immediately started to get
into fight mode, but we both sat down and were able to talk to him before he
escalated. We were able to praise him for the good play he’d been engaged in
with the little kids up to that point. We stressed that we understood how hard
it was to be the biggest and oldest kid and not be able to play as roughly as
they were because he was bigger and stronger. Then we gently explained how his
behavior could be harmful and asked that if he didn’t feel he could play
safely, that he could choose to draw with the drawing paper and pens we’d
brought for him instead. He opted to come hang out with us and draw for a bit
while he had dessert and within 15 minutes had regained his control and went
back to play and the evening ended successfully (of course, we were the first
ones to leave – we wanted to get out of there while we could still end on a
positive note!) We told the kids how proud we were of their behavior (our 2<sup>nd</sup>
son is high-functioning Autistic and so has his own set of issues sometimes!)
and that we appreciated their good behavior because it allowed us to enjoy rare
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Still, even as well as the evening went, I was an emotional
mess once we got home and I put the kids to bed and had some down time to decompress.
Even though our oldest behaved himself pretty well this time, I was still
waiting the entire evening for the usual fall-out. Like a soldier returned from
battle who hits the ground when a car backfires, my heart rate increased every
time I heard a crash or a child cry. Even if it wasn’t my child causing the
tears, my stress level was still zooming up with each incident – whether my
child was involved or not. By the time we got home, I was emotionally
exhausted. Just another side affect of living with and parenting a child with
social anxiety and behavioral issues. I still count tonight as a win, though,
and it gives me hope that there are more wins in our future.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I know that God gave us the children that He did for a
reason. I know how much I’ve grown as a person in my tolerance, patience, and
understanding. I am a stronger person for having parented my son and I hope to
be even stronger by the time he’s a grown man and living his own life. I hope
and pray that he will be stronger too, and in full control of himself, having
learned how to live with his anxiety and anger. Most of the time, despite all
the struggles and pain and worry and stress we’ve been through, I feel positive
about the future. I trust God’s purpose for our lives so I have hope that what
we are enduring today will be used for something great in the future. However,
I am still human. This isn’t easy. There are times I want to cry. There are
times that I do. But amongst the little defeats, the many set-backs, and the
huge blowouts, there are sweet, precious moments of winning. I’ll take them. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-19419301496798428112012-12-06T21:59:00.000-08:002012-12-06T21:59:29.854-08:00Holiday WonderI just love this time of year, and I love how many beautiful things I can find on Etsy to celebrate the time of year as well!<br />
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To get a closer look, click on the picture and go to the actual treasury on Etsy. From there, you can click each individual item to see the listing. Thank you for looking!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-50410294662400467882012-11-29T21:45:00.000-08:002012-11-29T21:45:24.034-08:00The Stockings Were Hung by the Chimney with CareIf you or someone you know is in need of a new Christmas stocking, here are a few selections that might interest you! Just click on the picture to go to my treasury list, where you can click on each item individually to view it.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-25956161078545408592012-11-25T22:10:00.000-08:002012-11-27T23:37:43.315-08:00Treasury Time! Have a Cup of Tea.Yes, I've rediscovered the joys of making treasury collections on Etsy. Please indulge me by taking a peek!<br />
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Clicking on the picture above will take you to the treasury, where you can click individual items. Shop for the tea drinker in your life today!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-63725772257294013772011-11-28T11:32:00.001-08:002011-12-27T18:54:22.730-08:00One of These Things Does Not Belong!Well, the holiday season is upon us and I can tell the busy season has hit because I will be posting half the blog posts this month as in the two previous months. Whoops!<br />
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My husband and I have always had a "not till after Thanksgiving Day" policy regarding all things Christmas (except for buying gifts - I'll do that year-round if I see the perfect thing for someone!) Alas, this policy, like so many, has been completely ignored by our children. Our oldest especially, as he is eight and is An Authority on Just About Everything.<br />
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He is also very adept at getting into the boxes in the garage, and so delved into a Christmas box early. After strictly informing him that the box would be the only one to be opened early or he forfeits a Christmas present, I allowed the kids to get the stuff out of the box and start to decorate the house last week.<br />
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One of their favorite things is the Fisher Price Little People nativity set. All three love this toy, even though anything "Little People" in our regular toy selection is considered "baby stuff" by the boys. They had much fun and merriment setting the nativity up and setting out all the figures just so. I didn't really pay much attention until I went to look out the window at some deer the other day.<br />
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However, I have noticed as I've been driving around this past week that there IS some beautiful color happening in our trees right now. Here is proof from my own back yard!<br />
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I love the evening sunlight in the fall and winter, too. It gets that gorgeous lemony color that I don't recall seeing in the spring and summer. I happened to run in and grab my camera just in time to capture this leaf aglow from the setting sun. Within two clicks of my camera, the sun had already dropped just enough that the light had changed and the moment was gone.<br />
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It reminded me that life itself is full of fleeting moments, and when you have one happen to you, you had better enjoy it fully because if you blink a couple times, you might miss it. As fall is rapidly giving way to the rush of the holidays that heralds the beginning of winter, I am making a vow to myself to make sure I stop blinking sometimes and open my eyes fully to those moments so that I don't miss them. Maybe I'll even have my camera handy, and I can share some of them with you!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-51624202893902724262011-11-01T11:20:00.000-07:002011-11-01T22:17:28.313-07:00500 Followers and a Giveaway500 Followers on Twitter! Hooray!<br />
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To celebrate, I'm having a giveaway. The winner will receive one 8-oz lotion in any of my new fall/winter scents: <b>Enchanted Apple, Spiced Fig, Sparkling Plum, or Lump of Coal. </b>Keep it for yourself or make someone happy by giving it as a gift!<br />
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Entering is easy, you can enter up to three times:<br />
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1. <b>Tweet it!</b> "I want to win lotion from @rightasrain - my scent of choice would be __________" (and obviously replace the blank with your choice of the four available scents)<br />
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2. Leave a comment on this <b>blog</b> entry. Just be sure to leave your Twitter name so I can find you.<br />
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3. Leave a comment on my <b>Facebook</b> business page (feel free to "like" my page, by the way) - again, be sure to leave your Twitter name so I can find you:<br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/RightAsRainCreations">http://www.facebook.com/RightAsRainCreations</a><br />
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It's that simple! You may enter using each of the three methods once, for a grand total of three entries per person. NOTE: You must be following me at the time of the drawing in order to win, since this is a "thank you" to all my Twitter followers! :)<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">I'm sure I probably need legal jargon here. Something like all entries are free, drawing will be selected using a random number generator, I'll do my best to make the drawing fair and square, and don't sue me for any reason, because HEY, free giveaway! Note to foreign country participants: Make sure it is legal to receive my products before entering my contest. Thank you.</span><br />
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Edited to add: Would you like to see/read up on your choices? That might be helpful, yes? Just click each picture to go see its description & more pictures!<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">Um, edited again to add: Contest ends at 11:59 pm Monday, November 7th. Drawing will be sometime the next day or the day after and I will announce it forthwith. Posthaste, even. </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-79378727206384551322011-10-29T15:27:00.000-07:002011-10-29T15:37:02.426-07:00Two New Lotions and an SNS!I've had a busy day today - especially considering I'm on my 2nd migraine in two days. I did some product photography this morning, cleaned up the pictures a bit and listed my two newest lotion scents - my holiday ones!<br />
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Sparkling Plum is a lovely sweet plum complimented by a hint of tangy citrus and softened with a touch of jasmine and light musk. A very feminine scent that I think is just gorgeous.<br />
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Lump of Coal is just flat out fun. Star anise and vanilla blend perfectly to create a scent so tempting, you'll have everyone leaning in for another whiff.<br />
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PLUS, today is Saturday, which means it is time for Etsy's SNS (Saturday Night Special) hooray! Visit my shop and use coupon code "SNS1029" to save 25% off EVERYTHING! This sale only lasts until 6 am EST Sunday so better get shopping!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-32887226349187373462011-10-26T16:29:00.000-07:002011-10-26T16:29:18.699-07:00Homemade ApplesauceVery few things smell or taste better than fresh, warm homemade applesauce.<br />
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I made some today for my kids. We bought the apples 2 1/2 weeks ago when we went to the pumpkin farm, which is also a major apple farm in the area (<a href="http://bellewoodapples.com/">BelleWood Acres</a>) - the cashier recommended I wait a couple weeks before making applesauce because the apples would be sweeter and need less added sugar.<br />
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The apples most recommended for applesauce are Gala, Jonagold, Golden Delicious, and Fuji.<br />
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I used 8 apples, peeled, cored and sliced. I added them to a pan with 1 1/2 cups of water (which easily could have been reduced to just one cup... I had to let some of the liquid cook off at the end). Then I added 1/4 cup of sugar, several dashes of ground cinnamon and two dashes of ground cloves. The cinnamon and cloves are basically to personal taste - you could add them after cooking if you aren't sure where you stand on your spice levels. :)<br />
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Cook over medium heat until the apple slices are soft and easily mashed. You can then mash them in the pot for a lumpier sauce or run it through a food grinder for a smoother sauce.<br />
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Here are my kiddos enjoying the fruits of my labor. Well, two of my three, anyway - my younger son (the pickiest of my three) devoured his bowl so quickly, I didn't have time to get a picture!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-48548987891927758892011-10-24T14:58:00.000-07:002011-10-24T14:58:28.068-07:00Take A Closer LookI spend half my time browsing Etsy impressed by the products offered by amazingly talented artisans. I spend the other half of my browsing time impressed by their product photography. This is something I've spent years striving to improve (and believe me, there has been improvement! Y'all should see the first items I listed on Etsy. In fact, if you went to my sold history and looked at the first pages, you could!) and I'm always appreciative of other sellers who do it well.<br />
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So I made a treasury list of items I thought had excellent detail and perspective in the first listed photo of that item. I encourage you to click the picture to visit my treasury, then actually click some of the individual items so that you can see the detail I am talking about!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-89331733074399524552011-10-21T00:28:00.000-07:002011-10-21T07:49:57.433-07:00My Brain Is Going in Too Many DirectionsThis week has been so busy! Of course, there are a lot of weeks I say that now that I have three kids in school. Which reminds me that I wish the "Now" me could go back and tell the "Then" me that it was true what parents of older children warned me about life being busier once kids start school. Seriously, I thought having the kids in school would free up all this extra time for me to have to myself (and in some ways it has) BUT it also means that the time outside of that is FULL OF STUFF. Appointments, field trips, parent/teacher conferences, not to mention the other stuff I'm involved in - which I try to keep to a minimum, but it seems that this year in particular, things are just getting out of hand AND MY KIDS AREN'T EVEN IN SPORTS YET. I just don't know how other moms do it! Of course, I've been assured that those other moms are saying the exact same thing about all other moms too.<br />
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Mostly, I just feel that there are all these things I want to do, that even when I have some free time to do something, I don't even know which thing to do first, and I get overwhelmed and end up doing nothing - just waste time playing a game on facebook or reading an actual book. Or a book on my Kindle, which is a real book, but not an ACTUAL book. All you avid readers out there will know what I mean.<br />
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[side note: I love my Kindle. I was afraid it would detract from my enjoyment of holding and reading an actual book, but it hasn't. I still read actual books - now I just have the chance to read MORE books because I can buy the actual books that I really want, and I can ALSO get cheaper e-books to sample new authors or genres. Since I have a hard time allowing books to leave my shelves (even ones I didn't love all that much) this has also helped the space issues we have in our house. I mean, a person can only physically store so many books in her home before her children start asking for their closet space back...]<br />
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All this to say - I wish I had more time to devote to my many interests and passions. One of which is photography and photo-enhancement/alteration. I play around and I love it, but I lose all confidence when I see the spectacular work that is out there. Trolling etsy, looking at photography, I alternate between "wow, that person is SO talented, I'd be wasting my time listing my stuff" and "wow, my stuff is definitely better than that, I should list it!" Which sounds extremely rude and pretentious now that I've typed it out, ha.<br />
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So, before I bore you to death, here is my Red Dahlia.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-18595174269256836042011-10-16T19:24:00.000-07:002011-10-17T00:37:52.273-07:00NEW Scent in My Shop!I ordered my fall scents over a month ago and so far have managed to get ONE of them made and listed. Is that sad? Probably. Is that life? With three kids - definitely. Things just get in the way sometime.<br />
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That being said, I chose Enchanted Apple to be the first in line, and if I do say so myself, it is amazing! My sister came over this weekend and took one sniff and had to have one!<br />
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Enchanted Apple takes advantage of the best of the apple world, being tart and sweet at the same time (how do apples DO that?) PLUS this particular apple scent is underlaid with a hint of jasmine and light musk, so it is fresh and fruity yet still manages to be soft and feminine too.<br />
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I just needed a mental break and putting together a treasury list is a lovely outlet for my creativity and love of window shopping while (very) marginally fulfilling my online promotion quota. Ok, that's probably a real stretch, as I don't think many people who view my treasury lists ever actually visit my shop, but I'm too tired to quibble with my non-logical side today so I'm letting it go.<br />
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Now, without further ado (because the previous ado was more than enough and it is time you get to witness the creative magnificence I have assembled) - here it is!<br />
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This year we decided to try out <a href="http://bellewoodapples.com/">BelleWood Acres</a> - known mostly for their apples (and they are amazing!) but they also have a pumpkin patch. BONUS: you can ride in a train of apple carts pulled by a tractor. My kids were thrilled.<br />
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They also have a wonderful shopping area where you can buy fresh-made donut holes, apple cider, a wide variety of apples, caramel apples, cookies, other treats, and fun decorations! Plus, the kids can sit on this awesome rocking horse. Although, as you can see, my 2nd son was less than thrilled to share his turn with little sister, hahaha!<br />
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Despite the look on Thad's face, we had quite a fun time on this year's pumpkin picking trip. Our two boys both have extra needs plus our daughter is three, so family outings are always an unknown. Will they behave? Will we have a meltdown? Will more than one of them meltdown at the same time? (This has happened and is probably one of the most parenting stressors known to mankind, ha!) Thankfully this time everyone behaved (mostly - they <i>ARE</i> kids, after all - some whining is expected) and we all went home happy.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-69258139809752629482011-10-09T14:30:00.000-07:002011-10-09T14:30:32.753-07:00More Soap!I made more soap! This time, I even colored it. The excitement knows no limits now. I made a lavender shea butter soap, scented with lavender essential oil of course. I decided to pour most of the soap into the mold, reserving just about a quarter of it, to which I added some color. I was aiming for lavender, of course, but when I stirred in the color, it turned very very pink. However, I couldn't mess around with it because I needed to get the top layer poured before everything set up on me, so I figured "live and learn" and that this entire batch would be going into my own shower.<br />
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BUT... the next day when I went to un-mold it and cut it into bars, it was a very lovely lavender color! Hooray! The shade is more pink than blue, but it is definitely in the purple family. Phew!<br />
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In fact, here is a very rough picture - it was evening and the lighting was horrid, and this is right after I cut it, but I think it looks so pretty!<br />
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Of course, now I have to wait 3-6 weeks for it to cure, but so far I think it is looking good!</div>
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My name is Megan and I'm scared of making cold process soap. Why? Well, there is the whole "caustic lye" angle, but really it comes down to the trace.<br />
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Trace makes my blood run cold. I never have done well with things that are under pressure time-wise. Like Thanksgiving dinner. Trying to get the turkey, mashed potatoes, rolls, stuffing, and green bean casserole all done at the same time is impossible for me. So the thought of bringing a mixture to trace and having only seconds to add in the fragrance & coloring, etc and then getting it stirred in and poured? I'm panicking just imagining it!<br />
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I've been making bath and body products from scratch for about six years now. I make lotion, cream, salve, lip balm, sugar scrubs, bath salts. I've even managed to make some liquid shampoo from scratch that wasn't half bad! I had some tracing issues (thus only adding to my fear) and I only ever made one batch, because my patience is about as long as a gnat's life span and I couldn't handle the cure time; which was another one of the main reasons I kept putting off making soap, ha!<br />
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However, I've long had soap lust over other B&B makers' soaps. They are so pretty! They are so fun to photograph! They are so easy to package! You don't have to be worried about them melting or leaking when you mail them to customers thousands of miles away!<br />
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So tonight, I made my first soap! I've actually gathered the equipment over several years (for instance, some of it I needed when I dipped into shampoo making) but over the last week, I've stocked up on the rest of the equipment and all the ingredients.<br />
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I even bought a book! I've read TONS of stuff online over the years, but I have to say the book is handy because everything is in one place. While waiting for my ingredients to arrive, I researched recipes. I found one that was simple and made one pound of soap. It seemed like a good place to start, but OF COURSE I couldn't leave it alone and used <a href="http://www.thesage.com/calcs/lyecalc2.php">Majestic Mountain Sage</a>'s lye calculator to tweak it a little. Which may have been a mistake - see details later.<br />
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I laid out a towel. I set out my two containers, one for the heated oils and one for the lye solution. I pre-measured my ingredients, including my scent (Enchanting Apple!) and the colorant (which I stupidly put INTO the fragrance oil instead of dispersing into a teeny bit of water like I should have, thus causing the lovely apple-y green color to sink to the bottom and stick to the bowl and not make it into my soap at all. Mental note for next time.)<br />
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I had all my stirring utensils lined up, my thermometer ready, and my stick blender plugged in. Gloves on (and cuffed to catch any errant drips that might try to sneak down towards my elbows), goggles in place. My husband was <i>oh so kind</i> as to take a picture of me in all my fashionable glory. And for those of you wondering if I'm going to post said picture, the answer is <b>HELL NO</b>.<br />
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First I mixed my lye into my water, which involved a lot of stirring and not a whole lot of breathing (fumes are bad, mmmkay?) While that was cooling, I heated my oils. Then I waited for both to cool. When they were both around 105-110 degrees Fahrenheit, I poured my lye solution into my oils and used a stick blender to mix them together. According to one trusted source, this should have taken about 90 seconds.<br />
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This is where my fears surfaced and everything started going NOT according to my carefully arranged mental plan. At <i>maybe</i> the 30-second mark, I felt the mix was thickening faster than it was blending. I could still see swirls of oil that hadn't fully blended in - which is not ok, so I kept blending but my mixture was getting thicker. It was nearly pudding consistency and according to what I'd read, that was too thick. I don't even think I made it to 60 seconds of blending when I felt the mixture was fully blended and I added the fragrance oil and gave it a quick buzz to blend it in. I immediately poured it into my prepared mold, but it seemed very gloppy and thick to me. So now I'm nervous.<br />
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Was it because I tweaked the recipe to include shea butter? Maybe I should have increased the water in the lye solution just a bit to compensate (although the calculator recommended 4-6 ozs and I used 6 ozs). Did I blend at too high a temperature? The recipe that estimated 90 seconds of stick-blending also recommended combining the two mixtures at 120 degrees F. so that didn't seem to make sense - however the book I read said that lower temps would take longer to reach trace, thus making timing a little looser, which I prefer. Oh well, too late to do anything about this batch, so make a note to try a few tweaks to the next one (if this batch doesn't turn out awesome - which it may. I mean, miracles happen right? RIGHT?!)<br />
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I wrapped my molded soap in a towel and tucked it into a cupboard and now I just have to wait. I'll un-mold it tomorrow evening (if it is hard enough - but hopefully not so hard it crumbles) and cut it and take pictures to show you.<br />
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Don't worry - I only test out new products on family members. I won't list any for sale in my shop until I'm totally awesome at it. Should I start accepting bets now on how many batches that will take?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6382397688001914555.post-17480954959157579372011-09-14T15:48:00.000-07:002011-09-14T15:48:02.857-07:00Aqua and Red Together AgainThis is another classic color combination - it is fresh, fun and cheery!<br />
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So he's on meds, and he's in therapy, and we are constantly working on ways to help him cope. Some days are great, some days are ok, and some days are really really hard. However, even in some of those really really hard days we can still find moments of humor, laughter and joy.<br />
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For instance, the first day of school. Every kid is a little nervous, right? Even the most excited ones probably still have at least a twinge of anxious anticipation pinging around inside of them. Isaac, on the other hand, takes that to a whole new level.<br />
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Witness his first day of school photo:<br />
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Now, this is not your typical standing by the bus or front door with a wide grin on your face first day of school photo, is it?<br />
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Despite the evidence above, he actually did get on the bus (after a lot of coaxing) and when I got a call after lunch-time from the school nurse informing me he had a tummy ache and wanted to come home, I was able to convince him to stay, and he made it the rest of the day.<br />
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However, in moments like the one above, I've found it invaluable as a stressed-out parent to find the humor in the situation. Ok, sometimes the humor doesn't strike you until later and some of the moments we've been through with him are bad enough that there just isn't any humor to be found. But God truly blessed us with our son, despite the challenges He included, and Isaac does bring so many moments of laughter into our lives.<br />
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So when I saw what he was doing, I grabbed my camera. *CLICK* There we have it - our son's first day of 2nd Grade, yay!<br />
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Note: after we convinced him to leave the house (but before we had to bribe him onto the bus) I did manage to get this shot, more closely resembling the typical First Day of School photo - albeit the smile is heavily infused with nervous grimace.<br />
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So, without further ado, I present my latest treasury list! I used one of my favorite color combinations. I just thing this color pairing is classic and never goes out of style! So click on over and check it out!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/80603901/chalk-board-school-supplies-bracelet">Chalk Board School Supplies Bracelet by MySelvegedLife</a></td></tr>
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_1610136035"><img border="0" height="184" src="http://ny-image0.etsy.com/il_570xN.171197160.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/55348786/school-supplies-vintage-learning-curve">Vintage Learning Curve Pencil Box by Mmim </a></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/67790648/shark-bag-zipper-pencil-case-school">Shark Bag Zipper Pencil Case by minnebites </a></td></tr>
</tbody></table>And of course, I wouldn't want to forget a gift to my teacher! Never hurts, right? :) <div><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/63250364/peppermint-foot-cream-soothing-cooling-2">Peppermint Foot Cream by RightAsRainCreations </a></td></tr>
</tbody></table>Any teacher would welcome some of my peppermint foot cream after a long day of standing. The cream nourishes, the peppermint soothes and cools. Remember kids: A teacher with happy feet is a happy teacher indeed! (and maybe she'll go lighter on the homework as a result)</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1